Monday, April 27, 2009

Heart Motives

Heart motives are, i guess, different personalities that you have? haha i dont know but anyway, i'm going to list the heart motives and the descriptions. please comment on what your heart motives are so we can just become closer as a team i guess. BTW, heart motives are NOT good things. here we go:

1. like me-- a person that has this heart motive is someone who is very submissive to people around them. one who acts like a chameleon around different types of people. basically this person will do anything for others around them to like them.

2. love me--
a person that has this heart motive is someone who loves either their closest friends, only their family or whatnot. they almost serge all of their love and care for one group. basically, this person is one who is very exclusive. if others do wrongs to them, but arent in that one exclusive group they care about, it doesnt matter for them because the people outside the group dont matter as much.

3. respect me-- a person that has this heart motive is someone who is usually unintentionally condescending, and who demands respect 24/7. what they wear, who they talk to, what way they talk to people, how they just overall hold themselves screams for respect. ex. someone hates getting even tapped on the head because its a sign of disrespect.

4. perfect me-- a person that has this heart motive is someone who is nitpicky. someone who needs everything organized every single moment of every single day. someone who wants a "perfection" in their life. if something is not going right at home, with friends, their mentality is... "what did i do wrong?" rather than looking at all aspects of situations. mainly, someone who has "perfect me" thinks that whatever he/she does, it's not good enough.

just think about it, look back on all your situations/senarios and just type 1/2/3/or 4. maybe, im not so sure, we can just help each other out with this kind of stuff you know? that we must have a love that of Christ so we can have compassion for others. that we may see that the only respect and praise in this earth belongs to God. and rather than trying to be perfect in our own accords, we can know that... we already are perfect. because we accepted jesus as our personal savior, his blood has washed us of all of our sins and our inequities and we are perfect in God's sight.

so hope everyone has a great week with campus time, just time of fellowship etc, and i will see all of you guys sooooon! :D miss you guys already!


Steve Ahn

5 comments:

  1. mine would be 4... -_-
    the worst kind of them all...


    -steve ahn

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  2. 3: respect me FOR SURE
    I am a very prideful guy..


    -Edward

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  3. i'm gonna have to say 4.
    maybe even a little bit of 2.

    -kacey

    p.s. thanks for this post, steve.
    i really enjoyed it and hopefully we really can help each other :)

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  4. HANDS DOWN 4.
    I'm always striving to be a perfectionist.

    this was interesting...thanks for sharing!

    -Sharon

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